I was thinking as I watched the special about Jon and Kate splitting up. What the hell was going on in their relationship? Where did it go wrong? Jon wouldn’t say shit about what was really bothering him in regards to Kate. Yeah, Kate was acting like a bitch, and took control and just ran shit, reducing Jon to a beta male (a passive, weak man) , which probably turned Kate off, but why didn’t Jon take control of things and “man-up” to Kate? Was Jon really into her? Kate said Jon would open up with brief windows into his thoughts, and then clam up. Hmmmmm. Where was the communication? It seems like he just didn’t give a shit and kept his mouth shut, and let this disaster happen. He just wanted out. I don’t think Jon had ANY interest in saving the relationship, but, I think Kate wanted to keep things intact. I bet Kate was willing to try and work things out, but Jon wants to take his money, drive his car, and bang chicks. They got married young. Jon probably missed out on that stage when you are in your 20’s, acting an ass, drinking, banging chicks, and doing the college thing. I think he wants to live that life, and probably just started hating Kate’s naggy ass.
I have a feeling we will see Jon wylin’ out soon…That dude is gonna be off the No Worry, Beef Curry with a pocket full of money…He is not going to live a ‘quiet’, ‘chill’ lifestyle…This will be fun to watch!
Update: I was right. My theory may be on-point. Kate: Jon’s The One Who Wanted Out
#1 by billybob on June 23rd, 2009
I was so disgusted by his appearance last night. Kate was clearly the more emotional of the two and more hurt by all that has come down the pike! My question: have they tried counseling and a trial separation?
#2 by admin on June 23rd, 2009
Billybob - Forget counseling. Jon could careless about Kate. He has other things in mind…He has negative heart for Kate…
#3 by Ann on June 24th, 2009
I think Kate Gosselin is getting just what she deserves. She is nothing but an evil B____!
Who treats their husband that way? She is so ignorant the she tries to cover it up by being bossy, loud, obnoxious……….she even thinks she is way better than her children
#4 by admin on June 24th, 2009
My thing is, Ann…Yes, Kate appeared to treat Jon like sh*t, but Jon seemed to never stand up to his wife. I honestly don’t think he is mature enough to know how to handle Kate. I don’t think he had the tools to be a leader of that family. He let Kate steamroll right over him. Either Jon didn’t have a clue on how to handle his wife, or he simply didn’t care and just wants to run the streets…
#5 by Lynette on June 25th, 2009
Kate get a life. It is your fault more than Jon’s. Always yelling and screaming. I will miss seeing your precious children on TV but will not watch the show any more.
#6 by admin on June 25th, 2009
Jon could have stood up to her…
#7 by tj on June 25th, 2009
Jon knew what Kate was when he married her! A strong, opinonated woman-Atype personality. And thank God she had these traits to be able to succesfully raise her children. Could not believe Jon said he was still young, could (?) get a job, wants to run off to NY- has his toys now…never did act like much of a father. In episodes he never seemed to want to teach or work with the children in way. It was all about him and if he couldn’t be the center of attention, he through a fit or would argue with Kate. I remember when he took the boys golfing with him. Wow, did he actually show them anything or give them attention..no! Took them home and made them shag golf balls for him. At least Kate was always trying to help them learn and grow from experiences. Though, I will say she better get to her local Y and learn to swim and learn to get dirty with the kids instead of being a prima donna. This idea of life is just about pedicures and spas is a rather shallow ideal for the girls. I can’t believe he walked away from his family..what a selfish, narsisstic, shallow, prick of man…and he will get his someday whenn the kids are old enough to watch the shows and see what he really was all about!!
#8 by casey on June 25th, 2009
i think it’s easy to judge people when it’s on tv, but imagine if someone caught you on tape 24/7. would you be a bitch or a ray of sunshine all the time? how would your marriage handle taking care 8 kids? it’s just sad that people in the media end up in divorce. they get rich, then come out poor.
#9 by Gwen on June 25th, 2009
It is sad to see this precious family split. While watching the show Monday, I was disappointed everytime Jon said, “I am only 32 years old.” As a Christian I am reminded that the Bible teaches that a man is to love his wife just like Christ loves his bride (the church). Jesusloved us so much that at the young age of 33, Jesus unselfishly gave his life for us on the cross. The Bible also teaches that in a marriage the couple should put each other first, Their relationship is even more important than the relationship between parent and child. A loving, healthy relationship between a husband and wife will naturally spill over to healthy and happy children. I wish this family could be restored. There is nothing more romantic than a family that is restored. They are certainly in my prayers.
#10 by dal on June 30th, 2009
jon is enjoying the money!!!! but doesn`t want the responsbablity!!! he needs to grow up and stay with the family and forget about the friends!!!!!!!!!
#11 by admin on June 30th, 2009
Jon never had a chance to grow up - Got married, had a rack of kids, and never got a chance to party his ass off. He sees this as his chance. He suffers from arrested development!
#12 by Ann Smith on June 30th, 2009
I loved this family so much and still do. The children are adorable. I wish only good things for them. At times I think Kate had nine children instead of eight. Jon could not seem to ever see things that needed to be done without being told so Kate told him as you would a teenager. It is just so sad. I think they are good people and I will always love them and pray they can find peace away from the MEDIA.